Part
I: Beliefs
1
It is better
to give a little ground and protect the peace than to stand firm
and provoke a fight.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
2
Children need
discipline that hurts a little so that they will remember the
lesson later.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
3
Children
shouldn’t always get their way, but usually we ought to
learn to listen to what they have to say.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
4
The parent-child relationship is like a war in which if the parent wins, both sides win; but if the parent loses, both sides lose.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
5
If parents provide a good environment, children will pretty much raise themselves.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
6
The parent’s role is like that of a teacher who is preparing
the child for a final exam called life.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
7
Childhood is so short that parents should do everything to make it a happy time.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
8
“Spare the rod and spoil the child” is still the best policy.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
9
Children need to learn what they may or may not do, but we don’t
have to use punishment to teach.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
10
Whether we like it or not, children have the last word about
what they will or won’t do.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
11
If you let children have pretty free rein, they will eventually
learn from the consequences of their behavior what is appropriate.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
12
Children first have to learn that the parent is boss.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
13
Too many children today talk back to their parents when they
should just quietly obey them.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
14
If we want children to respect us, we must first treat them with
respect.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
15
You can never do too much for your child if it comes from genuine
love.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
Part
II: Actions
16
I often have
to call my child more than once to get her or him out of bed
in the morning.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
17
I have to constantly stay on top of my child to get things done.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
18
When
my child misbehaves, he or she usually knows what the consequences
will be.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
19
I often get angry and yell at my child.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
20
I often feel that my child is taking advantage of my good nature.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
21
We have discussed chores at our home and everybody takes part.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
22
My child gets a spanking at least once a month.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
23
My child has no regular chores around the home, but will occasionally
pitch in when asked.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
24
I
usually give my child clear instructions as to how I want something
done.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
25
My
child is finicky eater, so I have to try various combinations
to make sure he or she gets the proper nutrition.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
26
I don’t call my child names, and I don’t expect to
be called names by my child.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
27
I usually give my child choices between two appropriate alternatives
rather than telling my child what to do.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
28
I have to threaten my child with punishment at least once a week.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
29
I
wish my child wouldn’t interrupt my conversations so often.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
30
My child usually gets up and ready without my help in the morning.
Strongly Disagree
Strongly Agree
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